Wishing For The Essence of A Thing
When it comes to wishing, sometimes it is better to wish for the essence of a thing, rather than the thing itself. For instance, wishing that a certain person always be a part of your life, might result in you suffering a lifetime of unrequited desire as this individual drains your energy and resources while at the same time resisting intimacy. It is also a bad idea to wish for a person by name as in “I wish so and so would come back to me.” You are best to ask for something general such as “I wish for the relationship that is mine by Divine Grace.” Or “I wish for the highest good for both me and so-and so.” This takes the controlling aspect that can cause a negative rebound reaction in your life, out of the matter.
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